both these hands are so standard.... calling in the first hand would have been horrible imo... its such a good spot to get it in there vs a wild big stack.. think about it like this assume u just flat and the flop comes king high? how do u know with 100% certainty he has a-k? he bets into you and your life fuck he must have a-k and folds. To your dismay he flips up j-j and your wanting to kick yourself.... ship there everytime.

2nd hand was just a donkey getting lucky as shit... no way your not shipping it in there.. nothing you could do in either spot, just bad run of luck. Opening q-j utg with 10bb's without shoving is just unbelievably bad... learn from that guy and never do that